The Multi-Orgasmic Couple: Sexual Secrets Every Couple Should Know. By Mantak Chia, Maneewan Chia, Douglas Abrams, and Rachel Carlton Abrams. New York: HarperCollins, 2000. xvi + 204 pp., illustrations, notes, resources. Hardback, ISBN 0-06-251613-2, $24.

Don't drink too much alcohol. For some people, alcohol can become a problem. You may drink more than usual as a way of coping with or hiding your emotions, or just to fill time. But alcohol won't help you solve your problems and could also make you feel more depressed.